“We started out our marriage as a commitment to one another as friends and lovers. Now it feels more like an arrangement of roommates and co-managers. I want more than that. I need more than that. We both do. How do we get there?”

I know you’d prefer to fix your relationship without involving a counselor. I imagine you’ve already tried.

The truth is that marriage—the most important relationship of our lives – is also the most challenging to keep healthy. In fact, sometimes it seems like work just to keep it alive. Sometimes you ask yourself if it’s worth it—worth the stress, the disappointment, and the frustration. And sometimes there has been such a wounding to the relationship that you wonder if it can stay alive, if it can recover, heal, and grow.

Does the relationship feel stuck? Or do things improve for a brief time and then fall back to status-quo. Both of you are tired of the cycle, tired of feeling stuck, tired of re-hashing the same arguments as if you are in some version of Groundhog Day. Does any of this sound familiar?

I offer couples therapy to help
Repair Communication
Re-establish Connection
Rebuild Trust